Ladies and gentlemen, welcome to the Sheep Get Sheared Podcast. I'm your host, Austin Creed. Welcome into the show. Today we're going to be talking about this, this idea that I brought forward in the space that I don't. I've never heard him while talk about and it's. Rethinking religion. It's identifying this cultural shift between the culture of the church and the actual religious teachings of the church. Now, it's not just going to be about. Religion and Christianity what? Not today, obviously. I've talked about it at length. I wrote a whole book about kind of tying together this more agnostic approach, this more questioning the effects of the church philosophy on both the church and the society in general and vice versa. What the society. Effects on religion, whether it be Christianity, Islam, Judaism, Hinduism, Buddhism, everything because they're tied together, politics and religion are very similar. And so when people talk about politics, it's unavoidable to bring in religion. And when you talk about religion, it's kind of hard to pull the politics out of it. Even even Thomas Jefferson talked about for those of you. Who think that I'm making this up? Thomas Jefferson talked about how if someone thinks they can pull politics away from religion, they don't understand either one very well. And I firmly believe him when he puts forward that assertion and that's why right now, we're going to talk about especially geared towards men, you know, I hear these, I do not advise you to go looking for this. You can if you want to you, you're probably going to lose some brain cells. But if you really want to, you can go on TikTok. Go on YouTube and you can look at what these women pastors have to say about relationships and and about theology and whatnot, and some of the theology actually makes a lot of sense. I won't tell them that they're wrong with it, but here's where I think they dropped the ball and a lot of male passers are also guilty of this. So it's not just the female pastors. One of the male pastors, too. The church pushes this idea of love the Shakespearean idea of love. What everybody seems to be obsessed with love. First of all, the English language limits are understanding of love for anybody who's a writer or anybody who's studied English. Taking an English class high school or college. You'll understand that in Latin, in Greek and whatnot, there are are multiple different words for love. Will there be familial love, ****** love? Fraternal love. Platonic love. Professional love. There's tons of different expressions of love. And so when it comes down to it, we are limited in that capacity. But today, I really want to address relationships, and I talk about relationships a lot. Not because I want to tell people what to do all the time. I mean, come on. Anybody who tries to tell anybody what to do all the time is frankly wasting their time. In my opinion. They're a little bit. But you know what? It's OK. I really want to. Tell you why I believe that young men. I know young men are walking away from the church. Young women are too. But young men especially are leaving the church or they're not even going to church. The 1st place. And there's a reason for that. That doesn't just happen. And and in a total doesn't just happen out of nowhere. Everything has a reason. And part of this ties back to World War 2 and in World War 2 know immediately some people are gonna fall asleep. Because history might, they might think is boring. It's unimportant. World War Two. I've heard about it all the time. It's boring already. But you know, in World War 2, all the men went off to fight. A lot, I think like 10% of the population was gone, if not more. And so that kind of left the more feeble men and the more feminist women behind to host church services to run the community and to facilitate everything for about like five years. And So what did this lead to? Because this wasn't just a one and done, the draft happened in in in Waves. And so I'm here to tell you this is not just a. This doesn't happen in a vacuum. This effect really took five years to route because it happened right when the men left while they were gone. And then when they came back, men were like. This is church. What the hell is this? This is a church and they left. And so that's where the effect really started. Is they? The church is really contributing to this idea of oh, it's toxic to be masculine, you know, red pill guy is bad. Andrew Tate bad. All these dudes. Bad. Here's the problem. I don't agree with anything everybody says all the time. I've never met a single person that I agree with everything they say. However, there is wisdom to be found both in in religious and non religious texts. Equally in my opinion. And for those of you who really want a definition as to biblical masculinity, so-called I'll I'll give you the definition right here. It says biblical masculinity is a concept that involves embodying the qualities of Jesus. So. Here's interesting. Here's the interesting part though. When people want to compare when people want to talk about Jesus, OK. First of all, if you're a Christian, you need to understand that what separates Christianity from Judaism is belief in the divine of Jesus Christ. Oh, it's also interesting is Jesus was. He said that he was God. He said he in the father of one and a lot of this is and I believe that to be true. The thing that I never hear anybody talk about though is if Jesus was God, which I believe in to be and and a lot of people do like billions. Of people do, in fact. The thing that's interesting is then how could you be exactly like him? If he was divine because you can't be divine #1 and #2, Jesus was never married. Do I need to bring that one up? Why is it in the church that we talk about as if Maria, there's this idea of marital elitism, which we'll get into a little bit later in the show. Marital elitism is this idea that if you are married? Seed then you have status in the church, but if you're not married, whether you be a single man or a single woman, you are less than you are in Feria, or you're looked down upon, whether with pity or as if there's something defective or wrong with you. And I don't believe this to be true. This is part of the problem. Because marriage has changed. Maybe the idea hasn't changed so much within the walls of the church, but within the confines of culture, marriage has changed a lot. We got no fault of divorce. We got child support, alimony, birth rates out of wedlock or out of control. We got feminism, we got all this stuff that plays a role and. It's really weird to me when I go to church, it's not. I've been to more. When many churches in my life. And for some reason the calling the nominator is. They think that if you just try enough or you feel close enough to God that. You gain this. Immunity to the culture that all of a sudden the culture has nothing to do with you. Everything on social media, at your job, with your friends. With politics, all this stuff immediately doesn't matter, because you've decided that it doesn't matter and that God's bigger than all that. So therefore it doesn't matter to you, it doesn't affect you. You should be immune to it. Like a superpower or something like you're poisoned. Immune. I'm sorry, but that's just not true. 

Oh, hell no. 

It's not. It's unfortunately just not true. 

You lied to me. 

I wish I could sit here and tell you that it was in fact that that makes my job really easy. I'll tell you that right now, but unfortunately, it's not. All you have to do is look at this. The statistics of Christian marriage, divorce rate going up. God hates divorce, by the way. In fact, I'd care to wager. And I might get Flack for this. I don't care. I would go to wager that the church would, if the church really wanted to please God. They would be more they would. They would be more inclined to like polygamy. Then tolerates divorce. I'll repeat it in case you missed it. If the church really want to be in line with the traditional teachings of the Bible, they would be more encouraging of polygamy instead of so encouraging or tolerable of divorce. You'll notice that a lot of pastors will preach to the New Testament and kind of forego the Old Testament unless it ties into the new the Old Testament is the foundation for every every every Abrahamic religion. A lot of these words are kind of hard to use in succession, but nonetheless, you look at the Old Testament. A lot of these patriarchal figures. Had multiple wives. Now I'm not saying that's inherently a good thing, but you notice there was no. Talk of divorce. There was no talk of child support. There was no alimony. There was none of that crap. But yet today. In the name of monogamy, we push this forward. We don't have monogamy, by the way, unless you've only had sex with one person your entire life have been married. You don't believe in monogamy. You don't. By the way, for those of you who were really pushing this monogamy in the church and whatnot, which I see where you get that from and from a pure scripture aspect, you wouldn't be totally wrong. However, on the cultural side of things, you're totally out of line. And that's what people drop the ball. And if you don't believe me? Just look at how much toxic masculinity is being attacked as if femininity is inherently good and masculinity is inherently bad. And when it was masculinity that protected ancient cultures, it preserved the church and patriarchy. Both keeps men in check and protects women, by the way. Now we're going to get into this idea of biblical masculinity. And just to show you where I stand versus where other people probably stand, I doubt we agree. We're going to look at this video. I'm going to fair use David Hammond. Shout out to him. I don't know this guy, but I'm curious what he has to say. I've not seen this yet. So I'm curious what this guy's got to say. Oh boy, let's see how this goes. 

So next one and this kind of ties into everything, right? It's like spreading this message. And I've seen kind of with the with the new red pill, right? The get with 50 women before you get married and stuff. And then women, right. And I've seen that that biblical masculinity and red pill have kind of become merged into this one thing. And when you try and spread this message to people that are maybe guys that are outside of the whole thing or women that are outside of the whole thing. They kind of associate you with like the Andrew Tate 14 year olds or like fresh and fit and like Bugattis and girls and stuff, they're like, oh, whatever. So what is your what is your take on how in the future going forward we can? Find a better way to share this message in a way where more people. Can receive it, yeah. 

OK, I want to pause before he gives his answer. See, here's the problem. People don't understand that everybody is an individual. And if you can't separate the artists from their art, you're already in a rough spot. Now when it comes to this idea of what did he say, Bugattis women and body count and stuff like that? OK, first of all, I get what he's saying. Here's the fundamental issue before we keep going with this clip. If you can't take the basis of what someone is saying, even if they expand upon it and you disagree, it's the root. The root level ideas that we need to agree on first number one, here's the problem with the current church problem with the current church is this. They are telling men. To follow the traditional path. But then tolerating it when women are not traditional and they'll call out the men for for being playful in the women department, but they won't call out the women for being playful in the male department. OK, that is number 1 #2 is this. We're supposed to not want material things, right? Because apparently this idea of the minor. Which is being poor is good and being rich is bad, and when in fact the opposite is actually true, the rich can do really good. A lot of good for the world. The poor don't do anything besides just consume and need things. Now I realized that the Catholic Church especially likes the poor because the poor are the ones who feel the they filled the pews and they're most likely to meet God because they're broke. I understand that. But what we need to really push forward is we need to stop looking at God as a genie and start looking at God as the type of A. A guru, a man or a man's father figure who's supposed to lead us. And you know what's interesting, you know? Oh, no. You know what? I'll save that. Let's get on with this clip. I don't want to get too far out of line. Let's keep going with this clip. 

As far as like the biblical masculinity thing or? 

Do you mean, yeah, biblical masculinity. 

The question was with self development masculinity, kind of the content that I make, right? I'm actually in a very now tied into. We're actually in a very new evolved. You can kind of think of it like the red pill 2 point or the manosphere 2.0 the old manosphere. This was the red pills, kind of what you guys know that I'm against, right? Just typical bang 50 woman degeneracy, fresh and fit. Yada yada yada. 

That's not DJ. You know, OK, This is why I preach biblical bachelors M you want to know why? Because I don't know this guy, I'm going to Spitfire. What I assume he's going to say next space on what I've heard already and it's this he's saying you need to go along with the traditional path of being a quote biblical man and just getting married. That is false. That is a total terrible idea. Now, do I agree with the 50 women thing? I agree with it in concept actually, and it's not just to get your Willy wet. That's not the point of this, in my estimation. In my estimation, the whole point of it is not to get more women, it is to gain knowledge, to gain wisdom. How else do you explain to me that a guy like Solomon? Son of David in the Old Testament, he wrote Song of Solomon. He wrote ecclesia. Nasties he wrote these books and in them the guy was the richest one of the richest kings in the in the ancient world he had 700 wives and 300 concubines. The guy was on a total winning streak. He had women, wealth, status, everything a man could ever want. Respect a good family. Name he had everything, God's favor, everything. And what does he say? In Ecclesiastes, he says all is vanity. What is life? Why did things matter? The guy was depressed when he was winning. But you know what's interesting? He wasn't blinded by women. Well, kind of. Kind of a lot of people want to say that Solomon married all these women because he was lustful. I don't agree with that. A lot of it was actually due to diplomacy. A lot of it was actually due to the fact that he married Pharaohs daughter. He married the Nubian Queen's daughter. He married the king of the king of did Persia exist at that time, I don't think Persia existed yet, but he would marry the the daughters of these powerful warlords, kings, sultans, et cetera. To keep the peace. That's the whole point of it. That was the whole point. He'd marry the tribal leaders, daughter. He'd marry all these people to keep the peace. Did he sleep with all of them? Probably not. Actually, I don't think he probably did. But again, when you go into the back to this, the modern quote, red pill talking points, a lot of them. I actually agree with not because I want the wealth and the money and whatnot. I mean, of course you want money. Of course you want access to women. Anybody who says otherwise is a liar. Well, here's a difference. I want you to have clarity. I know guys in my life who they're good men. They're good godly dudes and they mean well. I don't say this to insult them at all. The problem is they don't have the perspective that I have. They don't have it. Why? Because they haven't slept with the amount of women that I have. And I'm not saying that to brag. I am saying that cause giving me perspective on a lot of women have common factors at play. A lot of them have similar tactics of manipulation, and that those those are the things you need to. Identify them the novelty of. Ohh, I'm getting laid. That wears off a goes away. And so then you start thinking about things from a more pragmatic lens, and you stop seeing the the marriage as like the oh, I have to be married now. It takes away their leverage over you so that you can decide what you want and what's best for you, your life, your walk. Everything you're in developing your own personal philosophy. That is what I want you to learn and we're going to see. I wanna see what he says on this. I guarantee you it's not gonna be what I just said. 

Where? Now what this is is this is the God pill, right? So really what? It is is, it's. 

The the the what? But God pill. Oh man, people are so desperate for terms on here, man. 

Integration and this is what I'm trying to do this there's only a couple of guys on Instagram. I don't want to like pride myself, but like I'm one of the only guys, maybe with like Elliot, I gained some inspiration from him where I'm trying to tie Christianity, biblical values from preachers I follow with the red pill and I'm trying to put that into into into a conglomerate with, like, biblical masculinity. I'm not saying I've. Coin This by any means, but hey, I don't you show me the other channels that are doing this. I don't believe me. I would love to find them. 

Mine. You're welcome when you get the notification that I use your video, feel free to hit me up if you want because I fall in that category. But you know what's interesting to me? My friends is this. I don't necessarily want to tie it in. I want to give you perspective and understand. That people on both sides are lying and exploiting and and whatnot, and I want you to develop what's right for you. That's all. That's a difference maker. I'm not here with the. I know everything. No, I like to just call everybody out equally. I like to discriminate equally against everybody and have this conversation so that we can exploit. The weaknesses in every philosophy so that we can you can then develop your own. That is my. Desire that you do. 

They many. So to answer the question, yeah, I believe we're in the next, we're in the next phase right now and I think the most potent way to attack this problem, right is not for me to just go full on Jesus mode, complete Christian Channel. Not that I don't believe it, but I think the best way to do this is to find that middle ground, right, kind of think of people who are like vegan as an example. Back when veganism was really popular, don't don't be vegan, don't go vegan. But I'm just saying, back in the day, like 5-60 years old years ago when I got shoved down her throat the best way guys. Excuse me to get someone to go vegan and I know this cause I went vegan for about 8 months like 5-6 years ago. The best way is not. To go full vegan mode right meaning like ohh you horrible person, you know how dare you kill all the cows like just an extremist? Because that's revolting, right? I don't want anything to do with that, right. So it's not to go full on in my opinion. In this mode, but it's not also to be completely lukewarm. 

Then what the hell is it? See this is the problem people like to talk in circles, and then you're one you end up wondering. Wait, what did you actually say? Like, I thought you said this and then you said that and then you mentioned something over here and then you sliding something down here and then I'm left in the center. Wondering where do I, where do I look? I don't know what's going on anymore. So what is it you want? I'll tell you what it is I want. Let me pause this for a second. I'll tell you what I want. I want you to develop what's right for you. I want you to either a. You can read my book if you want to read it. Or you could just read. You could write your own. I want you to decide what's best for your life. I don't know your situation. I don't always know what's going to work best for you. If you want my opinion, you can hit me up on X at sheep, get sheared and you can ask me. My DMS are wide open. You can ask me questions, I'll give you the best I can do. I'm not a professional, but I can help, but my goal is for you to develop something for you. I'm not here to tell you what you should do. I'm here to give you options, opinions and. Site but you need to develop a philosophy that works for you now. If you want to take some of my philosophy and put it in your life, you're welcome to do that. Do you want to learn about my philosophy and discard it completely and make your own from scratch? That is fine, totally fine. But then when you look at guys like this, what is he even saying? He's not. He's saying, OK, so don't be. Don't be agitated, but also, don't be a pastor, but don't don't go out here and speak to a lot of women, but don't necessarily get married. What are you saying then? What are you actually saying then? It sounds like you're saying everything. You're listening everything while saying nothing. 

Well this is getting weird. 

So much more I can take of this. I don't understand it. I know I'm not trying to pick on him. I don't know him, but this doesn't make sense to me. And This is why a lot of men are confused. This is why a lot of dudes are frequently putting into my channel because they're confused by this. You're confused by this. What else do you think that people are looking at? My videos about the church, why you're gonna leave the church and they're they're understanding it and they're going to it and listening to it because this isn't working. Things aren't working for them and they want. Answers. They want people to guide them. I'm not necessarily going to tell you what to do. I want you to develop what's right for you using principles that you've discovered in your life, and so you can develop a personal philosophy that can that you can get you through the rest of your life and get you where you want to go. But what else does he have to say? I don't know. I don't know what's going on here. 

It's to find that congruent middle ground where? Hey, you know what? I am exposing some truths. You know, animals are treated this way. It's not ideal, but instead look at the benefits of veganism. Do you understand? Right. So it's, it's glorifying that. So that's what I'm trying to do, you understand it's it's look at the problems with red pill, there are issues, but look at the benefits of following Christ. You gain the Holy Spirit, you overcome addiction, you you really begin to attract women who are high quality feminine mothers. You understand? So I'm not sure that answers your question, but we're entering a new phase. 

Oh yeah. 

Right. 

Not touching your mic, bro, it kind of throws off my ears. Look, I get what he's saying. I actually do. I'm glad he made that, that clarification. But here's the thing. I don't understand. I'm not here to make a middle ground. I'm here to make a whole new path entirely. I'm not here to tell you that to bring the two together. I'm not telling you to do that. You cannot do that. If you want. I'm telling you, just make your own path. Do what you wanted. Do find out what works for you if that's going 100% in the Christian direction and telling the red pill to to kick it, or if you want to go 100% educate, that's up to you. I'm not here to tell you what to do. I'm here to just give you the options so you can build here to give you the tools and resources so you can build your own philosophy. That's what I want you to do. Kind of sounds like that's kind of what he wants, but also not. I don't, I'm not fully sure what we're even talking about right now. 

Now of biblical masculinity, which is red pill 2.0, and that's what I want all of you guys to do. We're coining this movement. And Titan is now on board. So before we go absolutely viral and take over the world and put all the red pill in their grave, I need you guys to really share this and really get on board because whether you like it or not. 

Ohh please. Ohh please. You're you're gonna put the red pill out of business. 

Hell no. 

Good luck with that, bro. That's not happening. Yeah, that's not happening. Look, I I admire his tenacity. I really do. But here's the problem. That's not gonna happen. And and and it frankly, it shouldn't happen in my opinion. No, it shouldn't. There should be a lane for everybody. Obviously, as long as you align within the confines of the law, but it should, everybody should have their own lane. People don't need to have this 2.0 philosophy. I don't. You want to do that? Go ahead, be my guest. But I don't believe that to be necessary. I think at the end of the day, you should find your own lane. Find what works for you best and then just do that to me. That's what. That's what should be done. But I'm going to keep going forward. The show pushes on, and so he kind of mentioned that there are elements of the church he wants to tie in together and the elements of the quote, the red pill, manosphere or whatever you want to call it, he wants to tie in. I would like to show you more of what. So he was a. Content creator. Let's look more what the pastors have to say. 

In our current culture, manhood and masculinity have become a bad. Ring true manhood as being labeled oppressive or toxic. And so we have now toxic masculinity. Like, if you're a masculine man, then somehow you're awful and bad and evil. They're trying to feminize manhood and and make us more weak. And and where we stand for nothing and do nothing. Society wants soft men who go with the flow and embrace its virtues. And stands for nothing, Pastor Seavy said a few weeks ago. Just because we are saved doesn't mean we are soft. 

That's a great line. That's a banger. I like that. Good. Good work, bro. I like that. That's good because he's right. You don't need to be soft. There's no need to be soft, you just need to understand and that's why I I want you to develop your own personal philosophy. You don't have to always agree with what I say or what anybody else says because. At the end of the day. You're supposed to kind of pick and choose and find what works best for your life and hold on. Hold on. Oh, no, we're going to have ourselves. We're going to have ourselves here. 

Strong Christian. 

But my friends, This is why I believe it to be incredibly important that we. And we discussed these all sides of the argument are as many sides as we can find, and in the spirit of doing that, let's look at some of the opposition because I know a lot of the women, they might be upset. They might say that patriarchy did this time. The other thing in the past, which is true, by the way, it's true, there is merit to that argument. Problem is in your attempt to make your point, you address 10% and leave out 90% and that's where we come to this video right here. 

Strong Christian man that's going to put you in your place or else you're going to dominate the. 

OK, so this is extremely disturbing and it was not satire. She meant that she needed to find a good Christian man in order to teach her how to be a. Wife to give. 

Oh my God. 

Her voice so that he could dictate to her. And she also said you need to find a misogynistic relationship. 

Ohh hell no. 

I despise this term by the way. You want to know why, because it's used on the level of what racism is used like. It's like the boy who cried wolf. People be out here selling so many wolf tickets. They're surprised when the village doesn't come out there with their pitchforks and torches like you. Know. Let's get up. Where is he? Because it's used so much, first of all. If you don't like the biblical definition of masculinity, that's fine. You don't have to like it. You can go be an Episcopalian if you don't like it. You can go be an agnostic if you don't like it, you can go be a reformed Jew if you don't like it, you can go be a an atheist, A Hindu, A Buddhist. You can go find another lane if you don't. Like this one, but don't tell us that we need to modify ourselves for you when you're out here looking like you got some derp derp on your lip. By the way, don't think I didn't see. That I know the difference between a pimple and a disease and that kind of looks like it could be wrong. Not a physician, but that's kind of what it looks like to me. And again, again. What is the point of this? If you don't like it, look at these crazy eyes, by the way. 2nd, If you don't like it, you don't have to agree with it. Go, go do your own thing, but don't try to. Don't ruin the lives of young men and young women with with your cocktail of lies and deception. I'm sick of it. 

Yes, she was very serious. She used misogynistic and Christian man all in the same video. 

I don't think I didn't hear the word. I didn't hear the word misogynist. But you know what? That's OK. Well, no. I'm not gonna take your word for it, because I I have my own ears and my ear are just fine again. Women who hate men will will project on you and they'll say that you hate women when in fact know they hate you. But they don't want to admit that. So they'll say that you hate them. They'll use their love of their ideology to use hate against you and say that you're the hateful one when you actually harbor no hate because you understand. 

As if it was upholding and wonderful. Now I'm not against divine masculinity, we each have divine masculine and divine feminine within our. 

Oh, sure. 

Being and there's something really beautiful about a man working through his divine masculinity. 

This one looks like a complete witch, by the way. This is the kind of person who tells you they're they're they're really spiritual man, when in fact they're just a witch. 

But toxic masculinity, which is now found more within the Christian Church, and it was actually built on toxic masculinity, has squashed the voice of the feminine of the Divine feminine. 

I I I can't. I can't take it. I I can't. I can't take it. These people are just crazy, bro. The church was. Built on toxic masculinity. Oh, oh, OK, so you're saying that God is toxic then? Oh no, I'm not projecting. Ohh no, I'm not waxing poetic here. That's that's what she just implied. She just implied that God is toxic. Ohh that if God is toxic then why are you? Then why do you make this video other than just to **** on men? What else is the point under than just a bad mouthed man and talking junk about us and try to? Make us feel bad. That's why you have to be cold out here. Gentleman. Shout out to Steph. It's cold. Let's keep listening to this. If I can see how much more I could stomach of this. 

What? She has no idea what she's setting herself up for is that she is now going to suppress. Anything. Any voice, any uniqueness, any authenticity to herself. 

Maybe she's just finding herself in this, bringing together of male and female, which is called marriage, which I doubt. You know, you're probably not married or know or have you been married? You don't look like the type to be interested, but. Look more like the kind that get pregnant and have a baby daddy. But all that aside, my judgment aside, this maybe she found her identity in this union between herself and her husband and this new being, the Oneness that is supposed to be Christian marriage. Maybe she found him in that, you know, not suppressing herself. But finding a new sense of self in this new relationship that she's built, you know, like what it actually says in Genesis chapter 3. But we'll ignore that because Genesis chapter 2, because guess what? That's what it actually says. But we'll ignore that because apparently, you know everything and I know nothing. 

How God or the spirit of truth? 

I told you she was a spiritual witch. 

Has made her to be. 

Ohh God no, you know. No, I'm done with this. I'm done with this. This woman is straight. This one went straight crazy. Dude, I'm not listening to this anymore. This is straight. This is straight witchcraft, garbage, goggling book. I'm not listening to this anymore. You know the problem is it doesn't matter whether I listen to it or not. There are a lot of women who listen to. Advice like. This, and they find their identity in this quote, divine feminine, and which is just a code word for feminism. You wanted to talk about toxic masculinity is in the church. No. Feminism is in the church. By the way, and if you don't believe me, well then we'll look at this clip instead. And maybe maybe you could see what I'm talking about here and you can leave your judgment. 

One for the girls. Maybe boys too, but maybe because I'm a girl. I'm going to the girls. But anyways, here are three ways for you to overcome that spirit of promiscuity. That spirit promise you. Because that is. That's what I dealt. Where I have a whole video. On YouTube about. This but I dealt with us where promiscuity wanted to be, like a butter and Bangor 5-6 pick like I was. And that stage, and I've got to come into modesty and he's called me. The purity I called. 

In other in other words, she was in the spirit of of rebellion. Jezebel. You, Lilith, all these things. And she was out here dropping it at the club. Dropping it, like was hot, warming it up like it was cold out here at the club at the bar. The festival, Coachella. All that. And then now she wants to come into your church. And now she wants to pretend like none of that ever happened. None of it matters, all of it's the past, and you're a a virgin Gump man. You're gonna marry this woman. She's gonna treat you. She's gonna manipulate the absolute living crud out of you, and then you're gonna be like you're gonna be thinking that everything is your fault. When in fact, this woman is just crazy. I'm using this but as an example. By the way, I'm not talking about her. In general. But she's a she's a symptom of a huge problem that we find in the church right now. What else does she have to say? How much more of this can I can I stand? 

Called me to kindness with the elegancy and all these beautiful things that we associate with being a woman. Number one, I need you to unfollow, unfollow anything that you're following on. Take talk on Instagram, on Snapchat, on Facebook, anything that kind of makes you feel promiscuous. It can actually just be girls at girls posting themselves in the club or doing promiscuous stuff. Unfollow cause your brain is going to feel like. I kind of want to. I can imagine myself doing that, unfollow them. Remove. 

That that's not going to actually fix the problem. Again, you can't. You have to untrain the brain, and even then, no, no, no, no, no, this is not gonna work. This is not work. Long term, my friends. Again, this is like, these are the kind of strategies they use on guys like you and even on guys like me, women trying to use this on me by the way, they want the whole oh. I used to do all these horrible promiscuous, you know, degenerate things. But now, now I am redeemed and I'm saved and I want to have a real God honoring relationship. So what? What do you say? You you open to that and I see them. I. Say to them. 

Hell no. 

You think that you want me to pick up someone else's saved game file and start playing it? What are you, nuts? 

Well this is getting weird. 

I'm not doing that, dude, and I don't think anybody should do that, no. Ohh, you are a repackaged woman. You are a washed woman. Someone who's washed everything away and in the eyes of God you were forgiven. And the in my eyes, I say you're forgiven. But that doesn't mean I have to forget what you did. Forget who you were. Forget the behaviors that you've learned. And been practicing for God knows how long. But now I'm supposed to look past the red flags that are going by me like a Chinese Communist parade. And I'm supposed to just marry you? Really. No, I don't think so. 

To cut off any relationship with any guys, I'll see you in that promiscuous like like you can be trying to break free, but someone. Is holding you back. 

Oh, in other words, are ex boyfriends, pookie Ray ray, those guys who used to hit it right? They try to come back in your life and you want to get with them, but you tell yourself that you're trying to turn over a new leaf and you're not gonna let them get to you even though the back, back, back of your brain. I kind of miss it a little bit like a drug. This is like getting over a drug. It's like rehab. 

So if the guy is something that sees you, the permit, school girl and things, yeah, she's going to give me some, call him off. That's not who you are anymore. You are a new career. 

Hold on. Hold on, hold on. 

Oh my God. 

She told on herself. Did you hear that? That's not who I am. Ah, you see that you see that? Ohh no. Ohh man brother. Ohh no. 

Creation and crying, so call him off. He can. He will find another person within a few days and many girls that will give him what he's looking for. But you on the other hand, you're being. Called to something you need to grab your weapons. 

What? What? Hold on. Hold on. Hold on a minute. She told us she's telling on herself in so many ways, you'll find that easily, man, most men can't find any women at all. Most men can't, but you've been dealing with Pookie, Tyrone, Ray, Ray, Chad, Giga, Chad, all these guys who have women. So that's why you say that, but you don't see most men. Most men have next to 0 experience with women. Most men don't have more than what? Like 5 bodies over their entire lives. Versus you probably had five in a. Most likely, and I'm supposed to see here in, in and not call this behavior out. 

The word of God, because this is what's going to purify your mind. 

Oh no. 

This is what God? Is going to speak to you true? This is what's. 

Ohh hell no. 

Going to help you and call you into the difference. OK, you need to call every single thought call every single thought captive to the word of God. The Bible is gonna help you to overcome. It's gonna show you the beauty of purity. It's going to speak to your. 

OK, I've had enough. See, this is what you're up against, gentleman, if you don't like that kind of woman that we just showed him the show. Oh, that you're a talk man. How dare you not want to wipe up a woman like that who's trying to be a good woman? How dare you, Sir? How dare you? She's your sister in Christ. How dare you? Oh, oh, oh, really. So I'm supposed to sit here and and do this? Oh my gosh, I'm so lucky. I'm so lucky that a woman like you who probably has a body count that's about as high as both my parents ages combined. I am so lucky that you found Christ and that you found the way the truth and the life you've been redeemed and washed free by the blood of the lamb. Hallelujah. And now I'm going to sit here and I'm going to say thank. You so much. For giving me the leftovers, I mean, the prime years of your life and now, even though I have no body count whatsoever and I've been grinding and I have a house, I'm gonna have a car. I pay off all my loans. Now I'm going to welcome you into my life because I think I am ready. Now I'm not going to check your credit score. I'm not going to check if you have student loan debt. I'm not going to check it to your past. I'm not going to check into. Maybe anything you may or may not have done in the past, but I may not check and ask for my abortions. You've had. I may not checking any. Of those things because. The end of the day, true love conquers everything. And if God is there, then anything can ever work. It's gonna be beautiful and I want to get married in six months. Ohh my goodness brothers this is the problem. 

This is getting weird. 

How is that not weird? I know I exaggerated a little bit. But no seriousness. This is the attitude of the church. They want you to basically do what I just said. If you do what I just described to you. Then that makes you a good man. That makes you an example, a pillar of the Christian community that makes you a good man. Not asking questions, not protecting yourself, not. Checking an investment before you make it. No, no, no, no. They want you to just jump the shark and just say, you know what? I'm going for it, man. I'm gonna go all in before I even see the flop. Don't worry. I'm going all in even before I see the flop. Gentlemen, I and I I plead with you. Do not ever do this. This is why men are leaving the church. This is why men are checking out because they're told to be weak, limp, wristed men and praised for it. Men who stand up, have a backbone and say no. I'm not going to accept leftover. No, I'm not going to accept something that I don't want. No, I didn't work this hard to get some leftover straggle. Who wants to reform herself and find God? I am not gonna sit here and just take leftovers when I've been working really hard and doing everything right. No, I'm not going to do it because you do that. You're a bad person. Not her for making bad choices, but you for not saving her from her bad choices. No, I don't believe in doing that. I don't. I believe people sow the wind and they should reap the worldwind. And I'm not going to step in and save you from that. That's your choice. You chose to drink. You chose to hook up with that guy. You chose to do those. Those lines in the club you chose to do all those things. Yet somehow. I should be the one to have to save. 

You. No, no. Ohh hell no. 

I'm out doing it and I don't think any man should do that because then what is he going to do? He's going to get blamed. He's gonna get attacked. He's going to. End up with a woman who's a little crazy. Or he's gonna end up with a woman who's not, you know, not really in great shape. I mean, at the end of the day, am I wrong? Tell me. And tell me I'm wrong please. Freeze. I would love for you to tell me. I'm wrong? Or maybe at 1020 years in your marriage, your wife will finally come clean to you and she'll tell you something along along the lines of this. 

OK. In the bathroom at the Woodcrest Country Club. And it wasn't your dad. Yeah. 

You think I'm lying? I wish I was. I'm not. I'm not doing it for a fact. I've seen this when I was a military. You'd be shocked. This stuff I saw. You be shocked what I see in college now at a so-called Christian College, to be shocked at the things that I see. Oh, yeah. Oh, yeah. People like to use religion to use the do the most despicable haters to generate things, by the way. My friends, I encourage you to stay informed, stay vigilant and question everything, cause the end of the day you should develop your own personal philosophy. You should want to figure things out for yourself so that you can apply them to your life and you can live the best life that you are capable of living. That's what I want for you. That's the purpose of the show is not to tell you what to do, but to give you the tools to do it for yourself. My friends. I will leave this here and we might pick this up another time because this is a conversation that will be continue to be had in the days, months and years to come, but I don't want to lose the forest for the trees, so I'm gonna end right here. I'll be out if you have any questions you can leave in the comments. Hit me up on my ex page at sheep get sheared. My DMS are wide open. Welcome to ask me questions. Bring up the episode. The episode what I the quote I said, or whatever it is you have a problem with or you want me to clarify or you want to bring up conversational topics about your life. I will give you the best advice I can give if that is what you want. Until then, I encourage you to. Go into depth and figure out things for yourself. I'm out.